Wednesday, November 2, 2016

words I want to describe other than pretty

I stumbled across a couple of posts today that got me thinking. These posts talk about words that women would rather be described as other than pretty. Society has put so much emphasis on looks, that people forget all of the other amazing words that languages have. These words can be used in a variety of ways, and language is ever expanding. However, when I hear people talk about another person the same words keep popping up, nice, pretty, and The Bachelor favorite, amazing. While I liked the post, some of the words didn't connect with me, as I am not that way. So I decided to make my own list of words that I would want used to describe myself, other than pretty, nice or amazing.


  1. Quirky - This word has become "cool" and almost everyone considers themselves quirky. I like being a little different and I like it when people notice that. It takes time for me to warm up to most people, so those that see that side of me really get to see me in all my quirkiness.
  2. Determined-I've had rough times like most people, but I pushed through. I had help from other people and media, but I made it. Someone recognizing this and my desire to complete my goals is touching. This shows that you saw the fight and the struggle not just the result. 
  3. Raw- No not, uncooked. Raw in this sense is akin to vulnerable, but not that extreme. Raw shows that I allow people to see my emotions and feelings in a way that I want them to. This takes real strength and courage to show people this side of you. 
  4. Erudite- Fans of Divergent might not like this word, but remember it was the corruption of being Erudite that is bad and not the word. Erudite brings to light a thirst for knowledge that was only quenched by develing further. This thirst led to either reading more or more schooling. 
  5. Curious- To be Erudite is to be curious. I really just want to know. I don't like sports, but I want to know what is happening. I have to watch shows as they are airing to avoid spoiling them for myself. I really just want to know. 
  6. Understanding- This is a hard one for me to show. I would like people to know that I understand what is happening. I might not agree with your approach but I understand.
  7. Loyal- This is why I choose Hufflepuff for my house. Who does not what to be thought of as loyal? I am loyal to those that I choose, while some may not like who I choose I am loyal to them. 
  8. Hopeful- To touch on my notes from Determined, I want people to recognize that I do think the future will be better. I sometimes think that hope is the best and worst characteristic to have. It can help you move forward or make you sad when things don't change as quickly.
Along with these words, I of course what the usual, funny, smart and kind; but as everyone wants these I chose not to include them in this post. What words do you want to be used to describe you?